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The paper wall.

Contact with your child is a human right, Article 8, and this page shows exactly where the paper meets the wall: the court convictions by name and number, the statistics that would settle the bias question and mostly do not exist, the shared-care evidence, and the reform record with its reversals carried in full. The claims we refuse to make are at the bottom, starting with the one our own red team banned.

How to read this page

court cases carry their application numbers and link to the judgments. Formally neutral law is the starting point, not the dispute. The dispute is enforcement, and enforcement is measurable.

Art. 8the human right to family life, and the convictions for failing it
By nameevery judgment cited with its application number
60 studiesthe shared-care outcome literature, caveats included
Unpublishedcourt outcomes by parent sex, in country after country
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The convictions

Not opinions: judgments. The Strasbourg court holds states to a positive obligation to actually enforce contact between a child and a parent, and it convicts them, by name, when the machinery is slow enough to decide the case by itself. Every case below links to the judgment.

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The missing number

What gets published is where children live, from household surveys. What almost never gets published is how courts decide, by parent. Here is exactly what exists, country by country, so the gap is provable and not just asserted.

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The evidence on shared care

The outcome literature, with its true size: the shared-care advantage is consistent but small, the samples skew resourceful, and we say both parts out loud.

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The reform record, both directions

Belgium and Kentucky legislated toward shared care and kept it. Australia legislated toward it and repealed it in 2023. England and Wales announced a repeal of their involvement presumption in 2025. A page that hides the reversals deserves to lose; here they are.

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The Nordic core

Home ground: what Norway's Supreme Court confirmed in 2024, what the only enforcement tool actually is, and which of the commission's 35 proposals aim at exactly this.

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What survived the check, and what did not

Fourteen claims below are ones this campaign found in circulation, checked, and will not make. Family law is the subject where the strongest feelings and the weakest evidence sit closest together, and where a single overstated number is quoted back for years. The custody statistics that get shared most widely are the ones that survive checking least well. What is left after the cut is narrower and harder to dismiss.

How to read a thin evidence base

This page says where its evidence is weak, and it will keep doing that. But thin evidence and a settled question are not the same thing. The UN's own indicator on sexual violence in childhood is written to cover young women and men alike, and the comparable data actually collected covers about 68 low- and middle-income countries for women and about 12 for men, with high-income countries outside the count for both. The indicator excluded nobody. The measuring did.

So where you read here that the research is thin, read it as a description of what has been funded and counted, not as a verdict on what is happening to men and boys. Then ask the question this campaign exists to ask: who was assigned to collect it, and what would we know by now if somebody had been?

20 claims on this subject survived the check and are published above, each with its exact figure, its scope and its primary source.

14 more were checked and thrown out.

The discarded ones are not printed here, because repeating a false claim in order to reject it mostly just repeats it. They are not hidden either: every one travels with the evidence base in facts.json, with the reason it failed, so what we threw away can be audited as easily as what we kept.

If you have seen this campaign quoted with a number that is not on this page, that is the first place to look.

If the courts are neutral, publishing the statistics costs nothing. That is the whole ask, and nobody will publish them.

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Independent research by Mikal Steen Monslaup, supported by Manderådet and MannsForum · unformentoo.org