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More than 99.9 per cent of parents who keep a child with them in prison are mothers. The UN called that a gender stereotype, then wrote the remedy for caregivers in general.

Chapter 8 of the UN Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty carries a section headed Gender Stereotyping: The Lack of ‘Father-Child Units’ in Most Countries. Of the 92 states that answered its questionnaire, eight allow a child to live with an imprisoned father. Denmark is one of them. Norway is not. In Finland, across five years, three imprisoned fathers kept their children with them, against 114 imprisoned mothers. The study gives four honest reasons for that gap before saying it also reflects a stereotype. Unlike the finding about boys, this one reached the General Assembly intact. What changed was the word used to fix it.

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Eight countries out of ninety-two

What the study asked every state, and what came back.

The Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty sent a questionnaire to states and received 92 replies. One of the things it asked about was whether a young child may live with a parent who is in prison. Almost everywhere, the answer is that a child may live with an imprisoned mother.

The study puts the other half of the answer in one sentence, on page 270.

Only eight, mostly European States (Belgium, Bolivia, Denmark, Finland, Germany, Italy, Spain and Sweden), allow children to co-reside with their fathers in prison. Since appropriate ‘Father-Child Units’ are missing in most countries, only Finland provided information that between 2012 and 2017, three imprisoned fathers (as compared to 114 imprisoned mothers) co-resided with their children (73 girls and 54 boys) in Finnish prisons.

UN Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty, page 270

Three fathers. One hundred and fourteen mothers. Finland is the only country that supplied the figure, and Finland is one of the eight that permit it at all. It is, in other words, the good case.

The eight are Belgium, Bolivia, Denmark, Finland, Germany, Italy, Spain and Sweden. The study draws them as a chart on page 421. Denmark is on that list. Norway is not. Neither is any of the other eighty-four states that answered.

From those replies the study calculates a figure it states plainly, and it is the number this article is about.

more than 99,9% of primary caregivers who are allowed to co-reside with their dependent children in prison are mothers

UN Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty, page 270
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The four reasons the study gives first

Printed in full, because leaving them out would be the same trick this site exists to document.

There is an obvious objection to everything above, and the study makes it before anyone else can. It is a good objection and it is right. Here it is complete, in the study's own words, immediately after the 99.9 per cent figure.

The fact that more than 99,9% of primary caregivers who are allowed to co-reside with their dependent children in prison are mothers can be explained, at least to a certain extent, by the breastfeeding needs of mothers and the stronger bond that may exist between infants and mothers. In addition, many children who live with their mothers in prison, were born while their mothers were already detained. Research also reveals that among sentenced prisoners, mothers are much more frequently the primary caregivers for their children.

UN Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty, page 270

Four reasons: breastfeeding, the bond between infants and mothers, children born while the mother was already inside, and the fact that among sentenced prisoners mothers are far more often the primary caregiver. None of those is a stereotype. All of them are real, and together they explain a great deal of a very large gap.

This site's position is that they explain a great deal and not all of it, and that position is not ours. It is the study's, in the next two sentences.

Nevertheless, the high rate of mothers among primary caregivers in prison also reflects a certain gender stereotype. Even States, which allow co-residing of children with their fathers, seem to find it not necessary or desirable to provide for proper ‘Father-Child units’ in male prisons.

UN Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty, page 270

Not necessary or desirable. That is the study describing states that have already decided in principle that a child may live with their father, and then not built the room.

The section this comes from is not an aside buried in a chapter about something else. It has a number and a title in the study's own contents, on page 256: 4. Gender Stereotyping: The Lack of ‘Father-Child Units’ in Most Countries. The study named it, and named it as stereotyping, before we did.

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A word that cannot build a room

This finding travelled. What happened to it is different, and in one way worse.

The previous article on this site followed a finding about boys that did not survive the journey from the 804-page study to the 23-page note sent to the General Assembly. This one is not that story. This finding survived. It is paragraph 37 of A/74/136, and it is more specific there than in the study.

Although most States allow convicted mothers to co-reside with their young children in prison, only eight States explicitly permit fathers to do so. Even in places where fathers as primary caregivers are allowed to co-reside with their children, there are (almost) no appropriate “father and child units” in the prisons, which means that there are practically no children co-residing in prison with their fathers.

A/74/136, paragraph 37

So every member state was told. The count of eight, the absence of the units, and the consequence: practically no children in the world live in prison with their fathers. That is in the operative document, in plain language, with a number attached.

Then come the recommendations, and the language changes. In the recommendations chapter of that note the phrase primary caregiver appears ten times. The word father appears none. Here is the one that sets the frame.

In all matters related to criminal proceedings involving primary caregivers of young children, usually mothers, it is essential to ensure recognition of the affected children as rights holders.

A/74/136, recommendations chapter

Read as a sentence it is unimpeachable, and the parenthesis is honest: usually mothers. Read as a remedy for the thing recorded eighty paragraphs earlier, it does nothing at all, because the finding was never that fathers are being refused permission. In eight countries they already have permission. The finding was that there is nowhere to put them.

A recommendation addressed to primary caregivers in general reaches a father the moment a father-child unit exists, and not one moment before. Neutral words are the right words for a neutral problem. This one has a wing of a building missing from one side of it.

What the note told member states, and what it went on to ask for

Told, in the findings

  1. 01Only eight states explicitly permit fathers to co-reside with their children.
  2. 02There are almost no appropriate father and child units anywhere.
  3. 03Practically no children co-reside in prison with their fathers.
  4. 04More than 99.9 per cent of co-residing primary caregivers are mothers.

Asked for, in the recommendations

  • A father and child unit
  • A count of states without one
  • A duty to report the number
  • An owner for the finding

10times the recommendations say primary caregiver

0times they say father

A/74/136, findings at paragraph 37 and the recommendations chapterunformentoo.org

There is one place in the world where this question has been answered in law, and it is not Europe. The study finds exactly one treaty provision anywhere that addresses it.

The only provision in international and regional human rights treaty law, which explicitly addresses this question (namely Article 30 of the African Charter on the Rights and Welfare of the Child of 1990), exclusively speaks of ‘Children of Imprisoned Mothers’. However, the African Committee on the Rights and Welfare of the Child has interpreted the word ‘mother’ in this provision as to also include fathers and other primary caretakers.

UN Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty, page 270

The only instrument on earth that speaks to this says mothers, and the body that administers it decided that mothers includes fathers. A committee read a sex-specific word and gave it to the children on the other side of it. No new treaty, no new fund, no new agency. A reading.

That is worth sitting with, because it is the answer to the objection that this is difficult. Somewhere it was done, by the poorest continent's human rights body, at the cost of an interpretation.

The child is the one with the right here. That is not a framing this site chose, it is the note's own: children of imprisoned caregivers are to be recognised as rights holders. A child whose mother goes to prison may, in most of the world, keep their parent. A child whose father goes to prison may not, in eighty-four of the ninety-two countries that answered.

Nothing here argues for fewer mother and child units. There is no version of this where a child is helped by another child losing something. The ask is a second room.

Where this goes, and what would settle it

The straightforward test of everything above is whether any UN document after July 2019 carries the 94 per cent into a recommendation, a target or an indicator. If one does, this article is wrong in its central claim and will say so in the corrections register with the date.

The ask that follows from it is small and specific: that the disaggregation the study performed becomes something states are asked to report, and that a body exists whose job it is to receive it. Nothing here proposes taking anything from girls or from any other group in that document, and the campaign says so in the same words on every page it publishes.

The two documents this rests on

Both are UN documents, both are public, and both are linked here directly rather than described. Read them yourself. That is the point of putting them at the top of their own section instead of at the bottom of a reference list.

Full volume The United Nations Global Study on Children Deprived of Liberty, 804 pages, chapter 8 section 4 2019 Open the PDF on un.org → A/74/136 Global study on children deprived of liberty: note by the Secretary-General 11 July 2019 Open the PDF on un.org →

By Mikal Monslaup with Claude (Anthropic)

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for UN for Men Too, a campaign by Manderådet and MannsForum. This article is the author's own work and is not a statement by either organisation.

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Source notes and accuracy flags

This section is part of the article, not an appendix to it. It records where each figure came from, what was checked, and every place where the honest version of a claim is weaker than the version that would have read better.

Source notes
  • Both documents are held in this site's evidence archive with SHA-256 hashes, and both were re-fetched from their publishers and confirmed byte-identical to the copies read here. Page numbers refer to the PDF pages of the full volume, so a reader can jump straight to them: the eight states and the Finland figures are on page 270, the chart of the eight is on page 421, and the chapter contents listing section 4 by name is on page 256.
/* The softened claims used to be printed in full at the foot of every article: each thing I wanted to write, what went out instead, and why. It is the right record to keep and the wrong place to keep it. Repeated inside each piece it read as the article arguing with itself, and it put the strongest unsupportable phrasings back in front of a reader who had just finished the supportable version. The claims stay in the data and go out with the register, which is where a reader who wants the working goes looking. */

Every figure in this article also appears in the register, with its exact value and primary source, and any correction to it will appear in the corrections log with the date it was made.